The more we get kids to talk about the things that are important to them, the more we are helping the - intellectually and in self-confidence. One way to get kids talking is to simply rephrase your question from "closed" to "open". It's simple, and takes no time at all. With just a quick change to the type of question we pose, we're telling our kids that we are really interested in what they have to say.
"Open" versions of the first questions are, "Tell me about your day today in school?" or "What are 3 things that happened today that were good or bad." The "open" questions are going to elicit much more detail, time and thought from your child.
An "open" version of the second question might be, "What is this book about?" or "What is your (least) favorite part of this book?"
Get kids talking to get kids thinking!